4 Things I’m saying YES to for the Rest of 2024
I recently listened to some very old episodes of a podcast highlighting the host’s YES list and NO list and I thought it would be fun to do my own spin on it. While in the world of decluttering and organizing, it feels like we are saying “no” to a lot of things, I wanted to start with my YES list because there are still a lot of things to say “yes” to! As I made this list, I kept focused on what is most important to me and my family for the remainder of the year. So, what is most important to us this fall?
First, our sanity. We are not machines, so we cannot go 24/7. If we are presented with some time to rest, we need to do our best to take it. Yes, we love that our kids are active and learning, but this season is very very busy. A rare night with nothing on the calendar will be cherished with a family dinner, a movie, or game night.
Second, helping our community. Teachers spend a huge amount of time with our children - we need to acknowledge that and support them in any way we can. Other parents in our community are in the same boat as us, juggling work, home, and other commitments. Being able to contribute to the village is a privilege and a joy.
Finally, supporting each other in our family. Understanding that being there for someone’s soccer game is just as important as attending their winter concert at school. It’s knowing when one family member might need a little more attention than another and pivoting in order to be able to accommodate that.
Now that we’ve got that out of the way - let’s see what’s on the list!
When a teacher or the school needs something, say YES. If there is an opportunity to help in the classroom, buy some supplies, or help fund something or a student in need, we say yes. Now this is within reason, but as long as it is in line with the time and resources we have available, this is usually an easy one.
When someone needs help with a ride, say YES. Because sometimes that person is me! Whenever we have extra seats in the van and someone needs help driving their children somewhere, we make it happen. It literally takes a village and we’ve been on the receiving end of this gesture many many times. As a parent, there is nothing that helps more than taking something off your plate, especially during the busy after school hours.
When dinner feels impossible, say YES to something easy. Cereal, takeout, whatever it may be. There must be no guilt!! This is one that weighs heavy on me. I’ve always loved food and cooking, and sometimes (note: all the time) I put pressure on myself to make everything from scratch. I don’t even remember the last time I made brownies from a box. BUT - I bought some Ghirardelli mix on sale at Costco recently because I want to be able to simplify when the time is right. To be able to give myself permission to take the pressure off. It’s a learning process and I’m going to need practice. Learning with a box of brownies is a good start.
When a child asks for me to play a game with them or read to them, I say YES. Sometimes things feel really hectic and I’m quick to say no in the heat of the moment, but reminding myself that I can say “yes, as soon as I’m done sending this email” or “yes, as soon as you get your pajamas on and brush your teeth”, there is always enough time for our favorite card game or a snuggle and a chapter. As we all know, time is a thief and we will look back on these little stolen moments with longing as they head to college.
What is on your YES list for the remainder of the year? I’d love to know! Send me an email or drop me a DM on social media - I love hearing & learning from you! If you haven’t yet signed up for my mailing list - you’re missing out! Sign up here for the latest and greatest from ADO including first dibbs at my schedule, special offers, and of course my favorite tips and tricks!